WHEN HE WANTS IT TOO OFTEN
WHY DOES HE WANT SEX SO MUCH MORE OFTEN THAN I DO?
WHEN HE WANTS IT TOO OFTEN: Most relationships have a masculine and a feminine personality. The masculine personality follows a specific stereotypical personality and so does the feminine one. Masculine personality types base their egos on how masculine they feel. In order to feel complete, masculine personality types need to feel adored, loved, and appreciated. For some, this is accomplished through sexual activity.
Masculine personality types are just as sensitive as feminine ones, but they show it in different ways. We tend to think that when men complain that they want to have more and more sex, they do it because they are sex-crazed animals. Our conversations with girlfriends reflect this sentiment, “all he thinks about is sex,” “they are like animals,” and, “men always think with their other brain!”
OK, some of this may be true, but I need you to understand that specific things mingle within his brain to make sexual desire and sexual activity an important part of his personality. Believe it or not, in order for men to feel complete and to exist at the pinnacle of their masculine essence, they too have to feel adored, loved, and appreciated.
When he says to you, “we don’t do it enough,” “how come you never want to have sex?” “I’m always masturbating because you’re never in the mood.” In his heart he might be saying, “I can’t excite you,” or “I don’t turn you on,” or “I’m not important to you,” or even, “you don’t care about me.” If this is how he feels and you make a pact to, “do it more,” this is not going to make him feel any better. He does not want to feel like you are doing him a favor, or that his complaints have caused you to “give in.” He wants you to want him. It’s the same thing that we all long for.
If you love him and he’s a good man . . .show him. Call him unexpectedly and tell him that you’ve been daydreaming about having him inside of you. Get creative with your texts or your video messaging.
I hope this helps.