ThreeSomes
Most couples cannot withstand the aftershock of a threesome. However, this is one of the top rated male fantasies, so many of you will have to try it before you decide that it is not right for you. Below I have listed a few things for you to think about before you take that plunge.
MAKE SURE THAT YOUR PARTNER IS SURE
Oftentimes one partner will pretend to want a 3-some just to see if the other will do it or not. And guess what. . .the other one will always do it. This is a quick and easy way to head down the road to breakup. If your partner shows signs that he or she is the least bit hesitant, stop and back off. Once you make the mistake it is impossible to undo the damage done.
NEVER USE SOMEONE YOU HAVE ALREADY BEEN WITH
Too often one individual from the couple tries to use a person that he or she is already f***ing. They present the 3rd person as a potential partner, but in reality he or she has already hit him/her off. This is a huge mistake. It ALWAYS causes problems! No matter how fine he or she might be, do not, I repeat, Do NOT try to bring them into your freakiness. It’s a ticking TIME-BOMB!!!
HAVE A BUNCH OF CONDOMS & WATER-BASED LUBRICATION CLOSE-BY
Threesomes make people feel free. As if everything is all good with no possibilities of bad. The truth is, threesomes have the potential to not only ruin a relationship, but to also ruin your life. Alcohol, marijuana, and other recreational drugs are oftentimes used, and senses are impaired. Since this is the case, you HAVE to be extra careful. Know where all your risk is ahead of time and throughout the experience do not forget.
NO DOUBLE DIPPING!!
This is very important. If you stick your finger, hand, or penis inside of one person, you have to change the condom or glove that you should have covering the area before you penetrate the other person. If not, you will spread potential STDs, HIV, yeast, and all sorts of other things.
NO VIDEOCAMERAS
Your partner is already going to replay the experience OVER & OVER & OVER again. So you do not want him or her to have any hard evidence of the experience. Plus you never know when you might want to run for office or Miss America. So no videography.
DO NOT IGNORE YOUR PARTNER
Yes, variety is the spice of life. . .BUT. . .do not make your partner feel like you are more into the 3rd person than you are into them. If so, you will hear about it up until the day the relationship ends.
PLAN AHEAD
It is important that you find out what your partner expects ahead of time. Find out how she or he would like for the experience to go. Then the two of you can meet in the middle somewhere.
SET BOUNDARIES & LIMITS BEFORE YOU GET STARTED
Most of the time you partner will have a list of Dos & Don’ts. Respect their wishes. If you get swept up in the moment and decide to go outside of the boundaries, make sure that you understand that your actions WILL come back to haunt you. If he or she says no penetration, you should avoid penetration. . .period.
AFTERWARDS LOSE HIS/HER NUMBER
This is one of the biggest problems of threesomes. One half of the couple decides that the 3rd person is someone whose company they would like to enjoy on a regular basis. Oftentimes the couple decides as a group that they would like to not only maintain contact with the 3rd person, but also enjoy the experience on multiple occasions. This will create more problems than you could ever imagine.
TRIOS DO NOT WORK
A great way to send a relationship straight into the gutter, is to attempt to play house with 3 people. Group sex might work, but triplet dating and cohabitation will never work. In a perfect world, three people can coexist as a unit. However, the world is not perfect. Two is company, and three is a crowd. Jealousy and rage is all that you will experience if you attempt to create a situation where all three of you kick it all the time. Disaster, Disaster, Disaster!!!
IF YOU MUST DO IT, USE A RANDOM PERSON, NOT A CO-WORKER
This is a tough concept because I do not like to promote casual sex. However, in you want to minimize trauma, the third person should be someone that you two will never see again. Of course you should always practice safer sex and use protection.
MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE SURE
Most people cannot imagine what it is like to see their loved one having sex with someone else until it is too late. The experience ends up as a traumatic event and one or both partners never looks at the other the same way again. Do you really want to see someone else giving head to your loved one. . .hmm, something to think about.
DON’T PICK SOMEONE FINER THAN YOU ARE
Let’s face it we all compare; men compare in the locker room and women compare all day long. If the potential partner has more game than you do, LET IT GO! His or her game will manifest itself in ways that you cannot even imagine!
