LUBE, LUBE, & MORE LUBE: When you buy a vibrator, also pick up a bottle of water-based lubricant. The lube will help the vibrator to either slide in your vagina or glide over the surface of your clitoris. This will help to make it feel better. There are a variety of flavors and brands, so pick up sample packs that have a few different flavors to try out.
THE POWER OF TWO:
If you have a partner, masturbation can be great as a group effort. Watching each other masturbate can be a serious turn on.