First Date No-NO
First Date No-NO: If you’re on a date with someone that you really want, there are a few things that you HAVE to avoid. First impressions are very important so you should put as much planning into deciding ahead of time what you will and what you will not do as you put into making the decision of what to wear on that very special first date.
DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR EX
He/she will think that you are not over it and they will block you out of any dreams of what the future has to bring.
Regardless of how tempting it is, DO NOT HAVE SEX with him/her. Sex on the first date creates a bunch of problems. 1) they will think that you have sex with everyone, 2) they will have a hard time getting to know you for anything other than as someone to have sex with, 3) the relationship will immediately focus around sex instead of other activities, 4) it’s hard for anyone to think of having a long term relationship with someone that’s considered easy.
DO NOT PERFORM ORL SEX ON HIM/HER
Regardless of how good you are at it, all of your cool-points will come crashing down the minute your lips touch the area. In his/her mind you will inevitably sink to trick, slut, nasty-a**, and undatable status. If you did that to him/her on the first date, how many other people do you do that to on a daily basis?
DON’T TALK ABOUT YOURSELF THE WHOLE TIME
People will always have a much better time if you listen to them talk about themselves as opposed to making them listen to your butt brag the whole time. Let him/her talk about themselves. They will instantly feel like you are interested in who they are on the inside,
DON’T GET DRUNK
There is nothing more unattractive than a drunk date. You might think that it makes you ppear fun and attractive and in actuality they will think that you’re a drunk slut Certainly not long term dating potential.
DON’T WEAR YOUR SEXIEST OUTFIT
If you show up in an outfit that encourages your date to think about sex, regardless of how many great things that you have to contribute to the conversation, he/she won’t listen. He will only want to have sex with you.
These are just a few things that you should avoid if you want to be taken seriously. No one will attempt to make a ho into a housewife.
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