Fantasy Becomes Reality & Sex Becomes Mind-Blowing This Halloween!
by Dr. Rachael
by Dr. Rachael
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Every couple goes through it, even pairs consisting of sexual gods and goddesses, the infamous ‘boredom in the bedroom.’ Encouragingly, it can all just be a temporary part of staying together. So let’s get you all back on track! Halloween is around the corner and it’s the one time in life that you and/or your partner can shamelessly pretend to be any one person, creature, imaginary object (animate or inanimate), that your heart desires. So take advantage of this fact by mastering the art of Halloween RolePlay, which if done correctly can carry over into your everyday relationship so that you two become masters of Sexual RolePlay any day of the year!
So if you answered yes to the question: Are you bored with sex? Time for a sexual makeover!
It may be hard to fathom how to use Halloween as a time for a sexual makeover, and you can hardly open a sexual self-help article without someone mentioning RolePlay as a healthy part of any relationship, if only it were that simple, right? Fact is, we stop pretending and playing games somewhere in late childhood, now as an adult, you are expected to play a game of make-believe, naked? Well, I am going to help take the mystery and the chore out of roleplay so that the two of you can reconnect, explore, and have fun in a way that’s exciting and titillating for both of you.
First, spend time thinking about what types of things really really turn the both of you on. I’m not talking about erotica and porn, I mean those sexual thoughts you keep locked away that most people don’t even know you have. Go deep when considering this. It could be a childhood fantasy or experience (a crush on the gym coach or teacher), being taken advantage of by two athletes, things in your past that were sexually forbidden (but you did them or almost did them anyway and for some odd reason, you enjoy the memory tremendously), or even a quick sexual encounter that didn’t last long but the memory lingers. These are the mental images you should call upon when constructing your role-play scenario, because when you combine your own sexual nuances with role-play, your brain and body will respond in way’s you didn’t think possible. The more you are turned on, the more he/she is turned on, and it becomes a vicious cycle of wetness and joy! Your mind is your most powerful sex organ.
Rachael L. Ross MD, PhDAs a family doctor and a sexologist.
Dr. Rachael Ross has been heralded as “The next Dr. Ruth, the nationally renowned sexual therapist who pioneered frank sex talk.” Chicago Tribune. Dr. Rachael earned her M.D. from Meharry Medical College and her Ph.D. from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, along with a B.A. from Vanderbilt University, where she studied anthropology.