DEEP THROAT
by Dr. Rachael
- Updated February 13, 2023
by Dr. Rachael
- February 13, 2023
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When you opt to go down on a gent, there is a distinct art to deep-throat. Deep-throat is when the donor relaxes the back of his or her throat enough to let the head of the penis slide all the way to the back of the throat without gagging.
CHOOSE YOUR POSITION
When giving a blowjob, you have to decide if you would like a passive or an active role in the process. First consider your preference. Are you going to have an attitude or a hard time if he starts to thrust his penis into your mouth? If so, you might prefer the active approach.
ACTIVE ROLE
Have him lay on his back or sit in a chair. You will be able to control how much of the penis is your mouth at any given time. He might still begin to thrust or push your head down to get greater penetration, but you can use your hand to control the depth of the penetration. You can wrap your hand around the base of his penis and continue to focus on the tip. As long as you suck on the head, make it sloppy enough for your hands to glide up and down and twist as if you are unscrewing and screwing a bottle top on, he will continue to enjoy himself. In the active role, you control how deep his penis is in your throat.
PASSIVE ROLE
The passive role allows for him to have control over how deep he plunges into your mouth. This might be a 69 position with him on top, or you sitting on the floor with your back against the wall and he thrusts into your open mouth. This is for people who have no problem relaxing the muscles in the back of their mouths. You can still play an active part in these positions by using your hand wrapped around the base of his penis to limit how deep he can penetrate, and simply use your mouth to suck on the head.
It won’t take long before he is ready to ejaculate. Before you run out of time, make the decision to spit, swallow, or neither.
Article by
Rachael L. Ross MD, PhDAs a family doctor and a sexologist.
Dr. Rachael Ross has been heralded as “The next Dr. Ruth, the nationally renowned sexual therapist who pioneered frank sex talk.” Chicago Tribune. Dr. Rachael earned her M.D. from Meharry Medical College and her Ph.D. from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, along with a B.A. from Vanderbilt University, where she studied anthropology.