by Dr. Rachael
by Dr. Rachael
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Let’s face it. Sometimes you may just want him to Hurry Up & Finish. Maybe it’s a quickie and you have to hurry off to work, maybe the kids are on their way home from school, or maybe he just takes too long.
Whatever the reason, you need an arsenal of ways to make him rapid-fire during those moments when you have other things on your mind and agenda. Here are some tips to make him cum quickly!
HOLD & GRAB
Once he is inside of you, use both hands to grab his a** and whisper in his ear, “I wanna’ feel you,” or “wait. . .don’t move,” or even “lemme just feel you.” This is his cue to lay still with his penis inside of you for a while. With his penis resting quietly inside of you, grab him tightly and squeeze your vagina muscles to the beat of a steady rhythm. After about ten seconds, you can resume play. This will drive him nuts and before you know it you will be on your way to work.
NIX THE LIQUOR
Even though a little bit of liquor might help get you in the mood, it takes away some of the feeling in his penis. After he has a few drinks, his penis becomes numb, and before you know it, your quickie has turned into a few hours of frustration. If he is liquored up, consider performing Oral Sex before the penetration part.
STIR IT UP
With this little move, he wont know what hit him. You may have to teach him this ahead of time, or else he might not know how to do it in the heat of the moment. Imagine standing straight up and you swirl your hips in a circular pattern. This is the same movement he will make once inside of you. If you have discussed this move in advance and come up with a pet name for it that you both recognize (stir it, swirl me, etc.), you can request it. This will make him finish even before he gets a good start.
A little dialogue can go a long way. Tell him how badly you want him, how big his d**k is, how wet he makes you, that the p**sy is his, and how badly you want him to f**k you. This is guaranteed to take a few minutes off of the session.
SWEATY & WET
After he has worked out, his testosterone levels will be high, but his energy levels will be low. Catch him on a fresh return from the gym. The sex will be hott, heavy, good and short.
KEEP YOUR HEELS ON
So many things will run through his mind if you keep your heels on. He can fantasize that you are a trick he just met at the club, he will know to hit it hard and quick, plus your legs and a** will look so good he wont be able to handle it. It’s just a matter of minutes before you brush your shoulder off to applaud a job well done.
GRIP THAT A**
If you want him to cum quickly you have to become an active participant. While he is doing it to you, grab his a** hard, and don’t be afraid to us your fingernails. Let him hear how much you enjoy yourself. If you have to exaggerate it slightly, that’s OK. The sounds of your moans, mixed with freshly clawed skin, will push him over the edge much quicker than quick glances at the alarm clock every few minutes.
SUCK HIS FINGER
Once the two of you get things started, and you have become an active participant (See Tip number six), grab his hand and lick the center of his palm. Make your way to his finger tips. Breathe heavy, moan, and suck on his fingers as if his fingers have become his penis. Suck and lick them softly and the firmly, develop a moaning rhythm. You have created the best of both worlds. It feels like a blow-job and penetrative sex all rolled into one.
IS IT REALLY OFF LIMITS?
The entry-way into the rectum (butt-hole) is a very sensitive area. Many men are afraid to admit that they like to be touched in this area because they do not want you to think they might be gay. If he is comfortable with his sexuality, he shouldn’t mind; as a matter of fact, he should encourage anything that feels good. Once he gets excited, you have two rear-way options. You can place a fingertip about one inch into his rectum or you can find the area halfway between his rectum and his testicles (balls), and squeeze it with your fingertips. These erogenous zones will get it every time!
In order to make him cum quickly, you have to grip his penis with your vagina as he moves in and out. The same muscle you use to hold you urine when you really have to go, is the same muscle that you will use to grab onto him. This will make your vagina feel tight and wet. Before you know it, you will be on your way to finish running important errands.
Rachael L. Ross MD, PhDAs a family doctor and a sexologist.
Dr. Rachael Ross has been heralded as “The next Dr. Ruth, the nationally renowned sexual therapist who pioneered frank sex talk.” Chicago Tribune. Dr. Rachael earned her M.D. from Meharry Medical College and her Ph.D. from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, along with a B.A. from Vanderbilt University, where she studied anthropology.