Bedroom Kandi Distributors’ Convention

by Dr. Rachael

by Dr. Rachael

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It has been a couple months since we connected, but I wanted to take time to reconnect and to send you all a little bit more of what we discussed at the 2014 Bedroom Kandi Distributors’ Convention.  First, I want to thank you all for bringing sexual health into the homes and lives of millions of men, women, and couples, and I applaud you for your courage and bravery to do so.  I also want to remind you all of your responsibilities as junior sexologists.  You can help clients with your issues and direct them to trained professionals in your town when you find it appropriate to do.  They will oftentimes be too embarrassed to seek help on their own.

So let’s review a few basic concepts.  I introduced you to UP QUESTIONS.  Everyone you meet has at least two UP QUESTIONS in mind.

  • How can I spice things UP?
  • How can I give more pleasure to keep him/her firmed or moistened-UP?
  • How can I get my sex-drive UP?
  • How do I masturbate?  I give-UP!

You will always be able to guesstimate and predict your clients

If you keep these four UP QUESTIONS in mind, you will always be able to guesstimate and predict your clients’ needs before they say anything about them.  This way you will oftentimes predict which Bedroom Kandi sex toys and or intimate objects they might be interested in.

I also promised you a questionnaire like the one I give my patients when they are in need of sexual health counseling, soI have created one specifically for you.  This questionnaire is something you can email, text, or even hand to your clients to fill out either before or during the consultation.  It will help you tailor your presentation and your product line to specifically suit the needs of your customers.  Although you are very comfortable discussing sex, keep in mind that most people are not, so this will give them a ‘safe space’ to be honest about their sexual needs.  All I ask in return is that you tell your clients you know an awesome sexologist and that her website is …oh, and also tell them that they can watch me everyday on the hit show The Doctors!

It was a pleasure meeting all of you and I sincerely apologize that it has taken me so long to get back to you!  I have been busy traveling back and fourth between my clinic in Indiana and Los Angeles, CA where The Doctors tapes.  Here is a link to your customized BedroomKandiClientQuestions.  Please take care of yourself and I look forward to seeing you all again soon!

Article by

Rachael L. Ross
MD, PhDAs a family doctor and a sexologist.

Dr. Rachael Ross has been heralded as “The next Dr. Ruth, the nationally renowned sexual therapist who pioneered frank sex talk.” Chicago Tribune. Dr. Rachael earned her M.D. from Meharry Medical College and her Ph.D. from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, along with a B.A. from Vanderbilt University, where she studied anthropology.

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